Friend on FB girl(gum) style

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Step one: I send or accept a girl's friend request.

Step two : I sieve through her profile. Is she married? Children? Good looking husband? High profile job?

Step three: Look at ALL her pics. (How can she look so pretty , with the cutest kids........ Silent sighs, jealousy sparks. Get some contentment in her not so pretty pics).

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